”Hi ya … Just to say that I’m really struggling! Had a complete melt down yesterday over lack of sleep and very very tired… Close to tears all the time which is not like me! I will be there tonight cos this ain’t gonna beat me but just wanted to give you a heads up in case you are planning to be particularly evil … I might cry!!!!”
Now when I used to get messages like this before a session I’d reply with something like..
‘Don’t come in tonight, go and chill out and I’ll see you at the next session.’
And most people would think that as common practice and acceptable behavior.
But replying like that didn’t serve my clients at all, it only served me (my ego mainly).
So, as it’s my life’s mission to serve others, I had a good old chat with myself,
Overcame a few fears and worked through the stories that were going on in my head,
If I try and help them I won’t be able to help them and then I’ll be revealed as a fraud and everyone will point and laugh and I’ll end up quitting my job and losing my house and not being able to eat and eventually dying without anyone remembering my name. (If fear plays a part in your life you’ll know that exaggeration plays a HUGE role in our fear creation process)
They don’t want to be coached through this from me.
I can’t help them.
I’m not good enough to challenge their feelings and call them out on their own stories that are keeping them in stress and struggle.
You see when you confront your fears and stories you end up with clarity and ultimately the truth.
You end up with the truth about what’s keeping you stuck,
But also the truth about what will help you move forwards one simple, pain free and logical step at a time.
And the truth is,
I’m bloody good at what I do!!
And I’m not ashamed to say it either!!
^Secret life lesson right there^
So now I message my clients back with a time and a place to meet so we can work through their stresses and struggles together.
Here’s what that very client messaged me back after I messaged her to say that I really enjoyed the coaching session earlier….
The best bit…..
We were only talking for 90 minutes.
I say ‘WE’ were talking for 90 minutes,
It was mostly my client that actually did most of the talking,
I just asked a few questions and listened intently as she simply and easily revealed her truth.
And as you can see she’s now feeling excited and calm at the same time 🙂
Wanna know what questions I asked?
Well I can’t give you them all (my clients pay me money for that bit),
But I can give you some to get started…
What do you want more than anything in the world?
Why do you want that?
What’s it costing you not having that?
What’s one thing you can do right now that will move you closer to having that without stress or struggle or anxiety showing up?
Over to you,
Have a go at answering those questions,
And if you get stuck, then simply apply for an initial in depth life changing coaching session with me by filling in the boxes below.
If not now, then WHEN?